I don't think your current employer will be as upset as you think.
If you've been a productive employee for the last 8 months, then they got what they wanted out of the deal. If you haven't, they'll likely be glad to see you leave gracefully. So your boss already looks good or bad - you leaving shouldn't really change that.
In terms of your relationship with that boss, this is one of those situations where real life has to come first. I'm sure he'll understand. Besides, this isn't entirely about money - benefits are important, as you should be realizing with your father's situation. Secondly, it's not like you changed your status for more money - you did it to take care of your family. Who wouldn't respect that?
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