Who to choose...?
Well here is a sticky situation...
ok well im with this guy...been with him for 2 years and have a baby with him, live with him (and his parents)..ya i still like him and all but hes just been a a-hole lately..like for the past 3 months hes done nothing but tell me to shut up...hit me (not violently but hes really rough...like jabs my sides with his fingers) doesnt talk to me really and the list just goes on..
but about 2 months ago his best friend (ive known just as long as my bf [met them the same day]) got dumped by his gf and ever since i cant get him off my mind..
I have so much in common with his best friend..we are like 2 peas in a pod. In fact i have liked his friend longer than my bf but guess who asked me out first? RIGHT! and now...2 years later i have his child and unhappy with my sex life.
My boyfriend seriously (not kidding) lasts only about 30 seconds in bed and its not satisfying for me...at all. I find his friend so..HOTT. All i think about when im around him is how to get him under the sheets...
I think he has feelings for me but idk...everyone tells me how gorgeous and pretty i am but i dont think he thinks i am....how do i know if he thinks im hott? like what are some signs that hes intrested in me?
Me, my b/f and his friend do EVERYTHING together...everyday. He usually stays with us a couple days out of the week and works with my bf. Lately everytime his friend keeps telling me 'im so lonely' and 'sarah find me some puss' and stuff relating to that...is he telling me this b/c he wants to be with me and hes dropping 'hints' or does he really want me to find someone? cause he knows that i dont hang out with girls...him and my bf are the only ones i ever hang out with really...
what should i do? try and get with him? how do i drop hints that i want to hit the sheets with him? or is it a bad idea?
OR should i try and bring up a community relationship with my bf that would be me, him, and his best friend? and if so how would i go about doing that?
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