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I dunno, seems like there's an *ownership* thing going on here.
Have you thought about how it feels from her side? That with you, sex is so meaningless that you can have it with others and it's no big whoop? How should that make her feel about being intimate with you now (or in the future)?
Does she seem to be having jealousy issues with how you did your thing while apart?
I hope I'm not coming across as too harsh, that's not my intent. Believe me, I do understand the sting of jealousy, even in situations where folks would say it's not umm, *reasonable* or whatever, heh. I think it's brave of you to open yourself up here like this. I just don't want you to jeopardize your future. Be strong, and focus on your real priorities.
Good luck, and keep us updated!
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At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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