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thanks for the advice, a lot of good stuff written.
To elaborate a little bit, I know I'm being hypocritical because I've been with other girls as well, so it wasn't like I was crying over her for months when we broke up.
She's been wanting me back for a while but I couldn't get over some of the things she's done, including being with this one guy about a month after we broke up.
Right now, I'm remaining close with her, we talk everyday and we're more or less pretty exclusive. But I think establishing that boyfriend girlfriend title will take some time. I don't know if I'm ready or if I'm capable of just letting the past go.
It's interesting because with other girls, sex is just sex, but with her, sex seems like so much more, when we were together, sex was love, sex was commitment, sex was emotion, and then to just see her give it away to some random guy who she barely knew, that really hurt me.
And the hypocritical part is that when I'm with other girls, I know that sex is just sex, but when I think about her and other guys, everything seems like such a big deal.
I wonder if all people feel this way?
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mm...sex is fun 
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