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Want to know the best way to deal with the past? Leave it exactly where it belongs: in the past.
Your ex is obviously someone special to you. They were a part of your life and chances are you felt things about them that you've never felt towards anyone else. Embrace those times as great memories that you've had with that person.
However, getting back involved with your ex when you have feelings of resentment is not a good situation. Don't ignore those red flags that you see waving in front of you. It's difficult (trust me I know) but you have to do what is best for yourself at this point. Have you really moved on from when you two broke up? And if you have, are you happier?
She has been involved with other guys since you two broke up. Yes, technically she has done nothing wrong and neither would you by seeing other girls. If she is sleeping around with other guys, then that's a whole different issue and yes it is difficult to think about. But you know what? You have your own social life to deal with and sitting there and thinking about what has happened that you cannot control will not make things better. When I say go out and meet new people, this doesn't mean try to fuck every girl in sight. Take time for yourself: go to the gym, take up that hobby you lost, try learning something new etc etc. It will make things easier for you and you will feel great for yourself.
Whatever happens between you and your ex now though it entirely up to you. Whatever decision you make, accept the responsibilities that come with it. I wish you nothing but the best from this situation.
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