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As a highly insecure woman, I really liked reading this thread, because I definitely feel like I've done something wrong if my partner doesn't reach orgasm. They would assure me it was nothing, but I can't help but think things like, "Nothing? More like you're too polite to tell me what I could be doing to better please you." It's good for me to hear from men saying that it really is nothing I need to worry about, and that it's more about my insecurity in my sexuality (and in myself as a whole).
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The word "time" split its husk; poured its riches over him; and from his lips fell like shells, like shavings from a plane, without his making them, hard, white, imperishable words, and flew to attach themselves to their places in an ode to Time; an immortal ode to Time.
—Virginia Woolf, Mrs Dalloway
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