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I'm with you. I believe that the goal of sex is not the orgasm, but rather enjoying the person you are with. If I want an orgasm, I have my right hand. But when I want to share an intimate experience with someone whom I love, my right hand isn't enough.
Sex is about an enjoying an intimate experience with a person you love and while an orgasm is a great addition to that experience, it is not the end goal. The first time I had sex, I didn't come. Instead after about forty minutes, I started going soft inside her, but we both still had an amazing time. And in several other sexual experiences with her, it was always about enjoying eachother on a level that only we could reach together.
And I agree with Sage, communicate with her. Communication must be there before the intimate enjoyment can happen.
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