I've never had casual sex and never will. Once you've gone full heart and soul into it there just doesn't seem much point in anything less.
And, if I'm allowed to post hubby's views on the LL?, his comments on a lap dance:
"It was nauseating. She was just SO fake, and no, I don't mean just her boobs. I felt dirty and had to come home and shower." He's made similar comments about casual sex with acquaintences or even a few crushes he's had... He felt like a monster because he said some pretty cruel things to the women who came onto him at the strip club. He hasn't been back and I certainly don't mind putting on "shows" for him in appreciation. He _knows_ I mean it.
Let me clarify that hubby hasn't had casual sex either - he was concerned that it looked like that's what I meant.
I just meant when he had considered it, that was the conclusion made. Love my man.
