If indeed...you decide to help her, it is important to understand you might fail. It sounds as if the situation is far to complicated (as in the individual steps needed) to give advice to you one way or another. It is commendable that you feel her pain, and would be wonderful if someone could step in to protect her before its too late, but that person will likely be in for a very rough ride, just as she is.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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