Hubby and I have casual sex with other people on a regular basis. We find these people in places where there are often many others with the same goal in mind. Because of that it's pretty easy to broach the subject that this is just sex for sex's sake and nothing more.
I used to think that sex had to have a romantic idea stuck to it for me to enjoy it. Since then I've realized that there are times when a quickie or sex with somebody else can simply satisfy my instinctive, animal side without having a romantic attachment or 'getting into the mood.' There are times when that romantic sex that hubby and I have just doesn't fill the physical needs that I have.
Casual sex with another person that I do not know intimately adds a huge realm of the unknown to the experience. I find that exploration of the unknown titillating and exciting.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma.
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