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I think the main issue in all this is the relationship you have with your wife. Staying together for the kids sake's, while it sounds very nice on paper, doesn't work. They are smart...they see the tension - even if it's slight. They know when their parents aren't happy even when it looks otherwise. Deal with this first. What you are feeling for this other woman might be just an infatuation because of your unhappiness at home. It might just be the need you have for someone to love you and be attracted to you. On the otherhand, it could be your one true love and your ages shouldn't matter one bit or what other people think or say.
I think it all boils down to - do you still love your wife, or - even if you had never ever met this girl at work - would you still be thinking of leaving your wife?
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