If you can't tone down the drinking for a significant other that you love, perhaps you should examine your life and figure out why that is. Lots of people have already told you why that is, but until you realize it for yourself, nothing will change.
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"The question isn't who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." (Ayn Rand)
"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." (M. Scott Peck)
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