When I was 13 or 14, I went to the library and tried to figure out what it was in books. I saw some pictures, but when you don't know what you are looking for, it is tough. Then came the Internet. I have seen quite a bit of stuff on here to know what goes on. I never knew how relationships really worked until I started reading message boards like this when I was 23.
I have zero experience in relationships and very little in talking to girls. I still don't know what I am doing.
My parents pretty much failed when it came to talking about it. Now, I get back at them by making them wonder if I'm gay. (Not that there is anything wrong with that). But, they are the born-again Christian type. And, I wouldn't have put it past them to actively do things to prevent me from getting into relationships. They had me get braces, said negative things to me and not give me advice about how to attract girls, so I wouldn't have sex.
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