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Old 03-25-2006, 03:54 PM   #16 (permalink)
TivaBella
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I spend as much time with family & friends as possible and try to stay busy. However, if I feel like crying - I cry.

I agree with the ideas above about keeping busy and pampering yourself but the advice I would give you is to allow yourself to be sad for as long as you need to be. I don't mean dwell & wallow - just don't deny. I have tried keeping it in and pretending to be strong and it just made everything harder in the long run.

Believe me - the happy periods each day get longer and longer as time goes on.
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