I spend as much time with family & friends as possible and try to stay busy. However, if I feel like crying - I cry.
I agree with the ideas above about keeping busy and pampering yourself but the advice I would give you is to allow yourself to be sad for as long as you need to be. I don't mean dwell & wallow - just don't deny. I have tried keeping it in and pretending to be strong and it just made everything harder in the long run.
Believe me - the happy periods each day get longer and longer as time goes on.
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It's all falling into place. Of course that place is nowhere near this place.
Buffy - "Gingerbread"
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