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Originally Posted by uptown
When you are the higher drive partner you try to be considerate, to compromise and so on but after awhile you begin to feel like a trained monkey, you'll not refuse any offer of sex from your partner no matter how tired/distracted you might be at the time because you don't know how many days/weeks it'll be before you get the chance again. The lower drive partner controls all the sex in a relationship, a fact that can get pretty frustrating.
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That describes exactly how I feel, and when it goes on for a long time, you start feeling pretty resentfull. There are times, when my SO does initiates sex, I war with myself and think "I should say no, just so they know how it feels". But, I never do, because I don't know when my next opportunity might be. I have tried being supportive, understanding, and talking with my SO a lot, and the usual answer I get is not that I am doing anything wrong, it is just hormones. How do you deal with the "hormone" card? It is just so frustrating