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Explore sexual options that don't involve direct intercourse if that is an option. As the higher drive partner, you have to know that your level of sexual desire is ok for you. You are not wrong in wanting what you want. As the lower drive partner you have to recognize that, while is ok for you to not want sex as often/much as your partner, you still need to find a way to work it out with them.
It is a rough road either way. The lower desire partner always controls the amount of sex in the relationship (with exception of extreme cases of forced intercourse). It is a subject of much discussion in our relationship too. Lately I have been laying off asking about it/for it. She has noticed too. It is not that I don't want it, but that I don't want to have to ask for it or initiate the contact. Wanting to be wanted is an important part of our sexual dialogue.
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You do not really understand something unless you can explain it to your grandmother.
- Albert Einstein
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