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Originally Posted by keyshawn
Granted, I've been only to one club (once) and this was the case, I thought it was just a bit strange (and to be honest, a bit rude) to just go up to a dancing female and suddenly just start grinding on her. I decided just to approach the girls face-to-face and ask them.
Is this situation (the one you describe, Siege) typical for most clubs ? (I was not sure what the context of 'depending' was, if a majority or a minority of clubs have that type of atmosphere)
I know it might not be apropos to this thread, but is there any specific advice (etiquette and asking females to dance, perhaps) for dances in college ? (I don't know if it seems strange or not, but mine actually sponsors a dance probably once a month)
BTW - tons more info in this thread - http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=90710
regards,
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I would say it is typical of any club that mainly focusses on hip-hop music. It tends to happen A LOT. Not so much with other forms of music. I don't think there's as much grinding going on when there's techno beats being played.
I can't comment on 21+ clubs, because i've never been.
In general, if you want to ask a girl to dance, just ask her. Unless she's already on the dance floor (because then you look a little silly. "Uh.. i'm already dancing buddy, and you're already near me. Didn't give me much choice did you?"), then you can either attempt to do the "no pants dance" from behind while clothed, or you could slowly move towards her while trying to make eye contact.