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Originally posted by Conclamo Ludus
I'd stop asking yourself what you would do and ask yourself what your kids would have you do.
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yep, good way of looking at it.
and keep in mind, one of the possibilities is they may *not* want you with their mother if its blatantly obvious you 2 are unhappy together...
only you can figure out if you can/should try to get a proper marriage going again with your wife..
and as far as this other girl is concerned -
you've got 2 separate issues here, and i'd say put all your attention/energy on the first one.
figure out what to do with your marriage, then do it.
good luck.
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