What the fuck is wrong with you people?
The person asked for our advice. Now, I know I've been one to downplay posts like this because it's not really what the section is for but Jesus fuckin' Christ... I've never seen such a set comments.
You don't think it's at all a compliment that people feel they can come here and tell us about their lives? Ask advice? Give advice? And what do you all do? Tell him he's too young. Tell him his gf is just on the rag. Tell him to get over it and juct let her talk.
Listen man, you're not too young. You're just the right age for what's goin' on in your life right now. All these people went through at the same time. And now that they learned their lesson they expect that everyone else has aswell. Letting her talk is a good point, but you also have do some talking too. Have a good conversation. No booze. No distraction. Turn off the Aussie Rules match and get into it. Two years is a long time... even for an 18yr old. If you feel the relationship is worth saving you have to be honest with her and expect that she's being honest with you.
You'll get throug it.
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