I agree with you saying that you and your gf should have the fight or talk, however way you want to see it, somewhere else at a different time. But to be honest, it was kinda selfish of you to say "I wish we had this conversation at a better time" to her. I mean, I know you need to go out and have fun once in awhile but your girlfriend isn't having those nights and would have been the best time for you to leave the party with her to continue the discussion. But when you told her that you didn't want to talk about the issue at hand, it tells her that you're not caring about the relationship you have with her anymore and if you have went the other direction (talk to her some more about the issue at somewhere quiet), you would've clearly proved to her that you DO care, even though you know you do care, but she doesn't.
Ask yourself this question: What's more important? Having fun at parties or your relationship?
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Last edited by feelgood; 03-17-2006 at 11:12 AM..
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