You are delaying the inevitable. Perhaps she needs an out as well. As a metaphor-the bandaid.....when you pull it slowly, it might hurt a little less but the hurt lasts longer. On the other hand, yank it fast and the pain is only a bit more but gone in an instant. You're pulling slowly thinking it's better. It's not-you're keeping Raine from experiencing new things while you contemplate just that. Is that fair to either one of you?
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