i think you should wait a while. you've been together fro three years...that's three years that you have got to know a whole lot about this person, their ins and outs, their ups and downs their lefts and rights, get what im saying?...and you've stayed with her for three years, so there must've been something there to beging with, otherwise why have you stayed in the relationship for so long?
give it time. all relationships have there bad patches, the key is not to give up on it.you've got to work on it, both of you.give a little, take a little.
the only reason why this elana chick seems so interesting now is because she's new and fresh...and there's something in her that you dont see in Raine...BUT...have you ever thought about talking to raine and telling her how you feel?
maybe she feels the same. maybe she's the one dating some other guy away at college and doesnt know how to tell you. maybe she's the one thinking about breaking it off with you this week end?
you never know until you talk about things. at lease tell her that you're feeling this way about the realtionship. tell her what you want and make her tell you what she wants.
i can guarantee you that after you guys talk you'll know what decision to make.
three years is a long time on the contrary to what other people might say.you share so much with eachother, you've been intimate with eachother, like i said before, you know eachother's ups and down's.
it's alot to be throwing away over a girl you knew in high school.
just give it a shot...you never know what the cards may have in store for both of you...
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