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Originally Posted by ngdawg
All wonderful techniques, gentlemen, that you have obviously found work in reaching your goal. I would like to add that none will work if your partner isn't responsive. I have orgasmed by just have my breasts played and sucked on. On the other hand (heh, no pun intended), the best combo of usually guaranteed techniques have done nothing but get me sore and frustrated because, well, orgasm is a lot of work and I wasn't in the mood for one.
I would also like to add that no one man should stick to one thing through different partners. I really, personally, don't like the idea that what's being done with me has been done with others-a little variation, experimentation and mutual discussion goes a long way. I realize you do what you know works best, just saying keep in mind women, while our physiology is similar, want to feel unique to one another and special to our lovers, whether it's a one-time thing or a committment. I know, for example, anyone who'd go near my feet to rub them would risk a broken nose.  |
I think that almost goes without saying. Or maybe it should be said more?
I didn't really want this thread to be about just learning new techniques, but increasing understanding about sex and what feels good. i mean, assuming a world where all women were exactly alike, and even if you did find the "perfect" set of techniques, if you did that same stuff over and over you'd quickly become a boring, stiff lover. It's just that on the other side of the coin there are many things other people know to do that you may have never thought of doing that feel amazing for both the man and woman, but would have never occured to you on your own.