Foreplay, Light touch, Mound massage, foot rubbing, and calf massage tend to make the actual orgasm more enjoyable as well. I realize these do not actually "cause " the orgasm but feedback has led me to believe the way we lead up to the final goal is extremely important for the overall experience to be memorable, and it also seems to garner comments as to the skill involved....which really makes the whole thing worthwhile....heh.
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