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I quit smoking and started losing weight in similar situation, also did all the house work and never turned him down when he wanted sex. I took a job and bought prettier clothes, wore make-up and did every damn thing I could. And it worked. After half an year, life is better now. Not heavenly, but better
My advice is: If you really can't live without her, go to extremes and do EVERYTHING she wants you to. A rose bush or a wine bottle can't change the basis of your relationship. What you need is romance and she has to be able to be proud of you and it also helps if other people see the change and comment on it positively to your girl.
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