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Old 03-10-2006, 06:29 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Families fight over winning Tim Hortons' cup - What are they teaching their kids?

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Originally Posted by CP
Families steamed over winning Tim Hortons' cup
Mar. 8, 2006. 10:22 PM


MONTREAL (CP) — Two families are fighting over a vehicle valued at almost $29,000 after their daughters discovered a winning Tim Hortons coffee cup.

The dispute began after a 10-year-old girl named Marilou found the cup in the garbage bin of her elementary school in St-Jerome, north of Montreal.

Remembering the coffee chain's popular contest, she tried to roll up the rim but was unable to do so. Her small fingers were unable to loosen the cardboard so she asked the help of a 12-year-old school mate.

The older girl rolled up the rim and found it was a winner. The prize is a Toyota RAV4 SUV with a base price of $28,700, one of 30 vehicles being given away as prizes in the roll-up-the-rim contest.

"They took the cup to the school's day care service, and a teacher called both parents," said Nathalie Prevost, mother of the 12-year-old girl. She declined to name her daughter.

"The first parent to arrive there was Marilou's father, so he took the cup," Prevost said.

Prevost thought her daughter's helping hand deserved some recognition and she decided to call a local radio station to ask for legal advice.

"I wanted the name of a lawyer who could tell me if my daughter is entitled to some of the prize."

Tim Hortons spokesman Greg Skinner couldn't confirm if the cup is a winner because the prize had not been claimed. But he said the winner of the prize is whoever submits the cup's tab.

"If I buy you a coffee and you get a winning cup, it's your car," Skinner said. "I might be mad at you as your best friend but you're the winner."

However, because the girls are minors, Skinner noted, neither of them can claim the vehicle as a prize.

Marilou's father, who remained anonymous, said in a televised broadcast he wanted to give some money from the sale of the car to Prevost's family.

"But this morning they said they wanted everything, so now they'll lose it all because they went too far," he said.

But Prevost said she's not seeking a specific amount.

"It's not for me. It's for my daughter's education. I never wanted this to blow up the way it has."

Prevost said she doesn't plan to go to court but hopes the other family will find it in their hearts to recognize her daughter's part in their luck.

"At least I hope the parents save the money for their daughter's education and don't spend it for themselves," Prevost said.

As for the girls, they had a bit of a spat at school but their teachers got them speaking to each other again, she said.

"They weren't very close friends to begin with."

While the two families have not resolved the matter, the situation could get more complicated.

CBC-TV's The National reported Wednesday that a staff member who may have thrown the cup away is said to be considering legal action.

But it would a tough battle.

"The person who threw out that coffee cup, they gave up on it. It's gone, you cannot find who it was," lawyer Jordan Charness told The National.
Synopsis:
A 10 year old gir sees a contest coffe cup in a garbage and takes it out seeing that it was not opened. In order to see if you won, you have to unroll the rim of the paper coffee cup (see this thread for more info). Becuase she is 10 years old and her ahnds are not agile enough to un-roll the lid, she asks another older gilr to help her unroll it.

The cup is a winner for a $30,000 car.

The kids go to see their principal. The principal calls the parents.

The parents come and are fighting over the cup.
After some fighting, calling in to some radio stations...the father of the original girl who foudn the cup says that he wants to give some of the money to the other girl. The other girls family refuses wanting all of it.
The other girls mother says that it is for her daughters education.


My Opinion:
I don't get this.
The girl that found the cup found the cup. It is her cup.
Somone was nice enough to help her discover if it was a winner.
That's it. The person was being nice.

A woman wrote into the Montreal Gazette asking the question: An old lday dropped her lottery ticket, I helped her pick it up since she could not bend down. Should I have taken down the numbers and her address and waited to see if she would win becuase I am entitled to the money (or part of the money).

What if I could not remove the parking ticket I got from the windsheild of my car and you helped me with it. Would you now have to pay for the ticket (or part of the ticket)?

No, the kid taht foudn the cup is the kid that won. If she is nice enough to give part of the prize to the other girl, that would be great. That would be a very nice thing to do and that would be a good lesson for the kids.

Which brings me to my second point:

What kind of lesson are these parents teaching the kids.

Fighting over money?
Entitlement?

Nice lessons!

The best lessons for the kids would be the following
- The kid who helped's parents should leave it be teaching her that no one is necessarily entitled to anything. Curb this attitiude that is growing amongst us North Americans.
- The parents of the kid who found the cup should teach their daughter about gratitude by giving the other kid some of the prize.

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