Just a little update,
My lady came to stay with me for 11 days at my uni in england. The night before she came to england there was a party for everyone in her course. So she went and had a great time, this guy Daniel was also there.
So she tells me that she got talking to quite an attractive guy, and they were having fun chatting about cars, what they have driven etc (my GF loves cars
) anywho this daniel guy actually becomes jealoous and tries to get her away and come dance with him. She tells me that she just ignored him as she can talk to whomeever she feels like. So later that evening Daniel is very drunk and somewhat pissed off. She comes over and tells him he has no right to be jealous. he answers that he loves her.
She doesnt believe him and kind of makes light of the situation, however her friends were saying he is deadly serious.
So my girlie was telling me all this and i didnt do anything. I didnt do the !aha told you so routine" or anyhting. I just sat there and listened.
We then talked about it, and basically everything is A ok, i have been pretty mature and she really only sees him as a friend.
One evening when we were falling asleep a little drunk, she said " You shiukd never worry about stupid boys" this was extremely heartening because she had never referred to him like this,
She has really been great in helping me face my fears, really comforting and loving.
Thankfully this f£ckwit now has a new girlfriend who he met that night actually, and my GF says that the told her he was in love with this new girl. As previously mentioned in the begininng of this thread, this prick has never felt love before so hes really now giving it a go now!
So im actually going to Germany tonight for the weekend, cant wait. But the sad thing is, for me anyway though i am getting through this, as long as she knows or keeps seeing this guy it will be a problem for me...a small one albeit, but a problem none the less.
Thanks for listening gang,
best wishes