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Nienna · 03-09-2006, 08:58 PM

hey ladies...sorry i havent been around. its been a rough week, between exams and home life (with my mother...u all know how that is *sigh*), work and having to deal with this.... i must say its been hell of a week.

ive thought this through, time and time again. we have agreed to take things slow. trusting him will take time. and to heal my heart will take more time.

by reading ur posts.....you're all right. i know i deserve better. and maybe he isn't "the one", but ive decided for the 3-strikes-your-out rule. this is strike #2. even thought this has been a hard ordeal, bc of the type of person i am, i can't live my life thinking "what if." i know it may sound naive and immature or what u may call it, but its just the way i am. i rather live knowing that we tried to make things work, then not give it a try at all and have to think back that i gave up. i know my heart is hurting and with time i'll heal, but it's a hard choice i had to make.

so for now, we're taking things slow. meaning we've taken 2 steps back to give each other room to breathe. being this is my first serious adult relationship, we realized we did rush a bit into things. it got "too serious, too quick." there's a saying in spanish "Demasiada miel, empalaga," and "Mucha carne junta, se pudre." translation: "Too much honey will give u a tummy ache." and "Meat that sticks too close together will rott." moral: never give too much of yourself (and not so quickly) and remember you need your OWN space. which is what we lacked. so who knows what will come of this. but believe me, i thank you all for your wonderful advice. i will keep you posted on anything new.

as for what Sage said i agree and i told him something similar. i told him that before he started the relationship, he should have taken care of his business. he didnt. but, in front of me he called her and ended things. we'll see if anything more comes of this i hope not. but i will keep you all informed. thanks once again ladies. this place is truly a one-of-a-kind nitch

P.S. I WRITE TOO MUCH!! im so sorry

03-09-2006, 08:58 PM	#12 (permalink)
Nienna Upright Location: LI · NYC	hey ladies...sorry i havent been around. its been a rough week, between exams and home life (with my mother...u all know how that is sigh), work and having to deal with this.... i must say its been hell of a week. ive thought this through, time and time again. we have agreed to take things slow. trusting him will take time. and to heal my heart will take more time. by reading ur posts.....you're all right. i know i deserve better. and maybe he isn't "the one", but ive decided for the 3-strikes-your-out rule. this is strike #2. even thought this has been a hard ordeal, bc of the type of person i am, i can't live my life thinking "what if." i know it may sound naive and immature or what u may call it, but its just the way i am. i rather live knowing that we tried to make things work, then not give it a try at all and have to think back that i gave up. i know my heart is hurting and with time i'll heal, but it's a hard choice i had to make. so for now, we're taking things slow. meaning we've taken 2 steps back to give each other room to breathe. being this is my first serious adult relationship, we realized we did rush a bit into things. it got "too serious, too quick." there's a saying in spanish "Demasiada miel, empalaga," and "Mucha carne junta, se pudre." translation: "Too much honey will give u a tummy ache." and "Meat that sticks too close together will rott." moral: never give too much of yourself (and not so quickly) and remember you need your OWN space. which is what we lacked. so who knows what will come of this. but believe me, i thank you all for your wonderful advice. i will keep you posted on anything new. as for what Sage said i agree and i told him something similar. i told him that before he started the relationship, he should have taken care of his business. he didnt. but, in front of me he called her and ended things. we'll see if anything more comes of this i hope not. but i will keep you all informed. thanks once again ladies. this place is truly a one-of-a-kind nitch P.S. I WRITE TOO MUCH!! im so sorry __________________ "in life there is only one thing i'm certain about, and it's that nothing is certain." Last edited by Nienna; 03-09-2006 at 09:02 PM..