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Do ALL if not most guys really check out porn? I mean.......I know it may sound like a stupid question, but guess I was raised in a hole and now seeing the light......but finding out that it could just be a natural/normal habit of men.....I'm trying to be comfortable with it, but when it's done in secrecy and I find out.....makes me feel like A) I'm not enough/I don't have good enough qualities being a female, B) like women really are just tools/pieces of meat

but then that could just be some weird fixation planted in my head.

Why do guys need this? Even if they are in a serious, devoted relationship???? Why are they curious about this?

Are there any women out there who are comfortable with this? Or not?

To be honest, I myself have been kind of curious- I casually checked out some sites a long time ago, but just didn't continue......but I will say there is something that turns me on about watching people/other women...but if I say that to my SO, I don't want him to think that he can just check out other women whenever he wants and I don't want to feel like I give him the okay to be turned on by them.....I want him to be turned on to ME.........I thought about bringing this up with him.......maybe watching some decent videos together or even doing our own........but anyways.........

Please share your thoughts and opinions- men and women.........thanks!