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Im feeling bad about this.
Nothing personal but if you are appealing for a Grand gesture suggestion then perhaps you may be overlooking fundamental underlying issues.
If you dont know her well wnough to knwo exactly what would make her happy and are seeking suggestions here welll.....
Nonetheless ...things that I know have made women happy.
Make them feel loved and listened to :
Can you remember anything that she might have said in passing that she really liked ? I remeber one girl who told me once that she really loved it when the sound of the wind. Some time much later on I took her to a very special valley where there are two lakes in a a very steep valley and when the wind blows it makes the most amazing asurgin noises through the trees. For almost an hour she stood there , face upturned , eyes closed just listening. I enjoyed just watching her , she enjoyed that. Result Two Happy People for the price of one.
My point on that one is that there is something that she alone will haev told you , something you know about her.
In another case it was a helicopter flying lesson because this girl had mentioned once that she would love that .
Another time it was just both calling in sick and spending the day in bed giggling and eating Jelly Bellys. Samll thing , Big Happy. She just liked the illicitness and the decadance of it (innocent little thing) .
Presents work , embarrass yourself , walk to her job with a big ass bunch of flowers or a teddy bear . Letting all of her friends and colleagues know she has a man who really cares for her and does goofy things to please here will please her no end (no matter how much she might give out about how you embarrased her) .
Do stuff you wouldn't normally do.
Show her that she makes a diffenece in your life and that she is not just a stuck-on part of it . Make her beleive and know that there is nothing more important .
Prove it.
Mean it.
Blow off the stag party with the guys/ take her to paris/ buy rollerblades for both of you that you'll only use once/ take her to the best salon to have her hair done/ dinner out/ help her friend move house/ she's upset ? hold her and say nothing/ She's upset ? Hold her and tell her the exact right thing she wants to hear....these all work to cheer someone up , they didnt cheer the same someone up mind you ..becasue everyone is different...soem of these would have been exactly the WORSt thing to do in certain situations.
Whatever it is you must choose , if you love her you will know.
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