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All of your advice is very helpful and I appreciate it.
I have tried to avoid this girl. I purposely didn't call her office for a couple of days just to see if it was me who was initiating all the contact. But, she would end up calling me after a hour or two. I know how much trouble it would cause if I ended up being with her. I've tried to think about all the scenarios. She could ditch me after a few weeks, she could turn into a bitch. Also, I realize that she is much younger than me and would need attention that I probably wouldn't be willing to give. I've been with girls her age when I was younger and it was a pain in the ass. Older women are much easier to get along with. After all this careful consideration, I still end up wanting her. This girl is good at getting my attention too. She knows exactly what she is doing. She rubs my shoulders when I'm at my desk, she purposely shows off her tight stomach when she's in my office, she does the playing with the hair thing. At first I just thought that maybe she was just being a tease. I'm trying to be careful not be a sucker, but it's not working.
So, when I go back to work on Tuesday, I will try to ignore her. I promise. She is going to ask me why I'm not talking to her. Should I tell her why? Should I tell her to keep a distance?
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