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Originally Posted by ngdawg
I don't think she's sending mixed signals at all-she has genuine concern for someone she was intimate with. You're just reading between the lines when there's nothing to read there.
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I'm going to add one little piece to the above advice. Depending on the tone she takes when y'all talk, or email, or whatnot...she may indeed be sending some small mixed signals. I'm not saying she is, but she might be. I've had it happen at the end of relationships. Remember this: that's a part of the "still caring about someone you were intimate with" stuff. It's hard to polarize your emotions - people usually can't just turn them off.
In the end, I think she wants exactly what she has, only she wants you to be happy as well. I wouldn't worry about whether she was completely upfront with you about when she starting seeing other people, unless she directly lied to you. In that case, I wouldn't make a big deal about it, but I might tell her that if she wants to truly be friends, she needs to be honest about things.