I don't think that's it really. I think actually, she has a mature attitude about the whole thing. Why shouldn't she care about what happens to you just because you're not a couple? Specially since she did not cut you off for some awful crime against her heart, but that she didn't want to maintain the relationship through the distance, the changes, etc.
If you can't be friends and show concern for ech other without wanting something else, even though you're not together, then maybe you should cut all ties.
I don't think she's sending mixed signals at all-she has genuine concern for someone she was intimate with. You're just reading between the lines when there's nothing to read there.
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