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Originally Posted by maleficent
Busybody answer here:
If she is indeed pregnant, waiting will eventually limit your choices.
If she is indeed pregnant, with her health history, she should start pre-natal care sooner rather than later, which means eating correctly, and vitamins, etc, if she does indeed want to go forward with the pregnancy.
If not knowing is tearing you guys apart... find out... What's her hesitation in not wanting to take the test -- afraid of what the results will be? Better to find out sooner rather than later... and then she can relax a little.
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Agreed. I'll be even more blunt - if you can't bring yourself to take a pregnancy test to determine whether the most important thing to ever happen to you is about to happen, son, you're neither ready for marriage nor parenthood, as a couple. I know - you'll not like me for saying it, but us old farts have inalienable rights to speak our minds and piss the younger generation off.
But it is unlikely she is ill due to pregnancy at this early stage.