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Originally Posted by sadistikdreams
What I guess I should've asked, was which side do I have more evidence for? From the evidence, is there more of a chance that she is pregnant? Or is there more evidence to think that she isnt?
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There is circumstantial evidence both ways. I don't think that anyone on this board, even the doctors, can make any sort of judgement. Even a doctor examining her is going to need a test to make a decision. I wish that I could give you a magic answer that would make it all go away, but that's just not possible.
If she's stressed out about this, taking the test is the easiest way to relieve that stress and move on towards making a decision on how to proceed and what's going to be best for her and you. If you're stressed out, shut the fuck up and don't stress her out any more than she already is.
In all seriousness, you harping on the issue is probably going to cause more trouble in your relationship, and if it's already driving you apart you should probably bite your tongue as much as possible. Walk on eggshells for the next few days until she gets her feelings sorted out or the situation resolves itself.
Either way it turns out, good luck with it, and I hope that everyone comes through this with their feelings intact.