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Originally Posted by Wakefear
3. And I stepped up the communication. I thought that before we were pretty open, but now it's just awesome (and I do so enjoy the things she says  |
Good for you for this one in particular.
In 10 years of marriage, we've discovered that every time there's something off in our sex life, it's a reflection of somewhere we've fallen out of communication, some resentment we're harboring, some undelivered communication or unfufilled expectation elsewhere in our life. Sex is where things show up first, but it's almost never about the sex (though it always seems like it is, at first).