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lifeandtimes: here's my advice, do with as ye will. from what i understand, you're at the end of your senior year, in a quasi-relationship with a girl whom you've been friends with since sometime in your freshman year. After dating for about a year, she kind of breaks it off, but after some time away, now says she wants to work it out. She said she didn't want to be in a relationship, now she wants to be in a relationship....she's mixed up. Well, ok - that's where she is. I'd take it slowly with her, however you proceed. Maybe y'all discuss things, and you decide that you want to continue seeing each other...and if you really discuss the situation with her and decide that's what both of you want to try, I say go for it. I'd be a little hesitant go for broke in your shoes...but I wouldn't totally shut her down. Talk about it.
Here's the kicker. What are your plans post graduation? What are her plans? My experience says that a good portion of high school relationship end after graduation...particularly if you go separate ways. In that sense, I'd be sort of tempted to want to finish out high school with the girlfriend I already know, that I'm already attracted to, and where there's less stress from dealing with the total break up now. Almost like a potential fond-farewell to what has been your main highschool relationship. It's always nice to end these things on good terms....if it does, in fact, end.
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