Never had an affair so I don't have any advice. I think if I was so selfish to do that, knowing that the other person has a wife and kids, I would feel extremely guilty about it. And I say selfish on my part because it would be my choice to pursue such a path and no one elses. I don't have a need to purposely feel guilty so that's why I haven't gone down that road.
A side note though. I was pursued by a married man who worked in the same building as me. I had lunch with him one day in the cafeteria (he sat down and joined me uninvitedly) and starting putting the moves on me. He asked if he could take me out to dinner and just as I was going to refuse, his wife interupted us with his briefcase he had forgotten that morning. The dirty look on her face directed at me quickly turned uglier when she looked at him after I said, " Sorry, I don't do dinner with married men." Woo haa, to be a fly on the wall at his home during dinner that night.
Last edited by percy; 03-05-2006 at 08:44 AM..
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