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Originally Posted by Nienna
and heres a related question. i don't know if this is common or not, but what about peeing during intercourse?? sometimes i feel the urge to pee during sex with my bf but i hold it back and therefore loose my O (orgasm). and on one occasion during sex i did pee (not much) and it freaked me out. ever since then i pee before and after sex if i have to. but is this what they call the "golden shower"?? is that normal?? and if so why does that happen??
and to be honest, ive been too ashamed to ask my gyn. should i bother asking if theres a problem??
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It would be a good idea to ask your gynecologist. They've heard all kinds of foolish questions, but this definitely isn't one of them, and it's better to be informed about your body than not.
However, what you're describing
sounds like you may be on the verge of a g-spot orgasm, which produces what feels like an urgent need to urinate. The urge to pee is the release trigger for the orgasm in this case, and it may not actually be an "urge to pee", but the pre-release sensation for the female ejaculation that often accompanies a g-spot orgasm. You may have to just let it go once or twice and see what happens.
This might help you understand what I'm talking about.
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Originally Posted by Redbook
10. The G Spot Orgasm Trick
The good news: You definitely have a G spot. The bad news: Finding it is like playing pin the tail on the donkey.
The G spot is, anatomically speaking, your urethral sponge -- a sprig of knowledge I find wildly unerotic. It's our version of the male prostate, best stimulated through the vagina's front wall with your fingers, or with a flexing, antennalike vibrator designed for this quest.
To find your G spot, get yourself nicely aroused; then, inserting one or two fingers, palm up, press slowly around your vagina's front wall, about two inches up. It varies from girl to girl. Before hell freezes over you will hit a dime-size, slightly ridged spot that provokes an urge to urinate. Engrave that location on your brain, then go and do so. When you return, find it again. This time ignore the got-to-go feeling; you'll know it's false. If you keep stimulating, that sensation will bloom into pleasure. Once you've aced this, demonstrate it for your partner.
A favorite intercourse position is optimal for G spot stimulation: Kneel atop your man, legs on either side of his torso. Lean back on his raised knees.
Dr. Ava says G spot orgasms are titanic, intense, different from what the ol' workhorse clitoris can bring. Some women experience an "ejaculation" with these -- a milky fluid discharged from the urethral area.
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There is a flaw here, though. To find your own g-spot, you insert your fingers palm
down, not up. A partner would be doing it palm
up.
Gilda