01-12-2006, 07:39 AM | #1 (permalink) |
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Peeing after masturbation?
Given that I'm in a long-distance relationship, getting myself off is a regular thing (most often with a vibe-dildo combo). Now, I know we girls are supposed to pee after intercourse with a man, but what if I am having intercourse with a sizeable dildo? Since they are close to the same size, I am guessing the dangers of a UTI are similar. But should I also get up to pee afterwards, or can I just go to sleep without worrying about my urinary tract? Thanks, ladies!
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01-12-2006, 07:47 AM | #2 (permalink) |
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I dont know about anyone else, but orgasms always make me have to pee anyway....no matter how I acheived it
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01-12-2006, 09:06 AM | #3 (permalink) |
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I didn't even know that you were supposed to pee after intercourse. I mean, I can see how it would help clean up everything, especially if the guy orgasmed inside of you, but I don't usually.
If it would make you feel better, then pee. Or, if you have a history of UTIs, then you may want to pee just in case. |
01-12-2006, 11:25 AM | #4 (permalink) |
hoarding all the big girl panties since 2005
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I pee when I use a dildo (same as after intercourse- I get UTI's if I don't) but if I just use my fingers then I don't. You could either *not* pee and perhaps get a UTI, or pee and definitely not get one. Just remember to keep that dildo clean by washing it before and after using!!
On another note, what causes UTIs (according to my microbiologist friend) is bacteria from the rectal area getting pushed up into the urethra. So, if you're just out of the shower, chances are slim that you'd get one if you didn't pee. But otherwise, it's a real possibility.
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01-12-2006, 11:57 AM | #5 (permalink) |
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I have a history of UTI's so i always pee afterwards, even if i'm out of the shower, since my tract is really sensitive.
So yes, i would have to agree with sage... just fingering, don't worry about it. But using a dildo or vibe, then do. It's times like these i'm happy we have a ladies lounge to shoot the breeze in by ourselves sweetpea
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01-12-2006, 03:09 PM | #6 (permalink) |
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It's not just bacteria from the anus but rather a bruising/irritation of the urethra from the bumping and rubbing on it through the vagina. Rough sex or being rough with the dildo could cause irritation. If you are holding urine in your bladder then any germs that get into the urethra, combined with the irritation can cause your body to be more susceptible to a UTI.
If I were using clean hands only and no dildo I would not worry about it. I'm not terribly prone to UTI's and there are times when I don't pee right after. BUT I almost always do pee after I masterbate and of course after I have sex because I've gotten them enough to want to avoid it. If you are one of those people who have never had a UTI then you are not as prone to it. If your dildo is clean I wouldn't be as anxious about having to go.
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01-12-2006, 03:33 PM | #7 (permalink) |
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I agree with the other ladies here, the risks are pretty much the same, so it doesn't hurt to pee. It only takes a minute, why risk the chance of a UTI?
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01-13-2006, 05:51 AM | #8 (permalink) |
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Thanks, ladies. You're all right, I should be peeing after masturbating. I just get so sleepy and cozy in bed, so it's hard to motivate myself to go to the bathroom. I've also never had a UTI, to my knowledge, so I guess I am less paranoid. But good to know all this stuff.
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01-20-2006, 10:45 AM | #11 (permalink) |
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I had a request to post this from a lovely guy on the tfp.
"If you can be bothered, I just wanted to add to the "Peeing after Masturbation" thread, that you ladies should feel lucky you can pee after masturbating. For guys, peeing after sex/masturbation is just asking for trouble and spraying everywhere." |
01-20-2006, 04:32 PM | #12 (permalink) | |
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01-22-2006, 02:19 PM | #13 (permalink) |
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Well, here's some feedback from a male TFPer in response to my last post (sorry took so long to post it, I've been busy this weekend!):
"I never feel the urge. and if one is still erect, it is a recipe for disaster anyways. but it has not been an issue for me. So to answer your thought, no guys do not have to do this..."
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02-01-2006, 02:28 PM | #14 (permalink) |
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I always pee. Always! I've only had one UTI and I was very little, but I remember how uncomfortable it was for me. Maybe I was just a wimpy little kid, but I remember it enough to do eveything within my power to avoid infection. It's not a big deal for me, though, because an orgasm makes me feel the need to pee.
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02-03-2006, 03:40 PM | #15 (permalink) |
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I always pee as a part of the cleanup after sex. It just makes me feel cleaner.
I'm glad I saw this. I thought getting an urgent need to urinate after an orgasm made me a little wierd. For what it's worth, as a part of her maintenance routine, Sissy has to pee and disinfect after every time she dilates, which is a considerably more gentle process than masturbation. Gilda
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02-06-2006, 12:29 PM | #16 (permalink) | ||
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Also, a comment from a male TFPer on the topic of peeing after sex: Quote:
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02-06-2006, 03:32 PM | #17 (permalink) | |
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The new vaginal cavity is created by the surgeon and initially packed with cotton and sewn shut. After about a week, the packing is removed and dilation is begun. The body treats the new vaginal canal like a wound, and tries to close it up if it isn't periodically stretched with dilators, or smooth plastic stents, which look like this: The patient starts with the smallest one, putting a lubricant on it and inserting it into her new vagina, holding it in place with slight pressure for a set period of time, about two hours a day for ther first couple of weeks, gradually building up to the larger stents and dilating less often over a period of months as the vaginal canal becomes stretched out better, the patient learns to relax her muscles, and the body becomes accustomed to its new organ. It eventually gets to the point where the patient only has to dilate for a short period of time every couple of weeks to maintain depth and volume, and that can even be a bit lessened a bit if she's dilating naturally through intercourse or masturbating with a large enough dildo, though some kind of formal dilation is required for life, even with regular sexual activity. Otherwise, she risks loss of depth, volume, elasticity, or even collapse. It's especially important the first few four or five months while she's still healing. An MTF doesn't have periods of the same sort we get, but she does go through a healing period during which her newly formed vagina is discharging a pus-like fluid and bits of tissue daily for quite some time. We like to joke with Sissy that she got to have her entire life's worth of periods all jammed together into one five-month long megaperiod instead of spread out four days a month for thirty-some years. Out of curiosity, we figured it out for comparison, and we menstruate for about four to five years of our lives. A vagina is definitely a high maintenance organ, whether natural or surgically created. Here are two links with detailed instructions (the second is NSFW): http://www.tsroadmap.com/physical/va.../dilation.html http://www.intelleng.com/zen.html And here's a picture of a patient being dilated (so not safe for work that it defies description) The end of the ruler there indicates where the tip of the dilator, and thus, the end of the vaginal canal is: http://www.supornclinic.com/HTML/SRS..._25_17.8cm.jpg The best SRS surgeons (like Dr. Suporn, whose site I've linked to), can give their patients more vaginal depth than most genetic women have, unlike the miserably shallow results of the earliest successful surgeries in the 1950's. Gilda
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02-21-2006, 08:21 PM | #18 (permalink) | |
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Another comment from a male TFP'er on this topic:
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02-21-2006, 09:32 PM | #19 (permalink) | |
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02-21-2006, 11:43 PM | #20 (permalink) |
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Gilda--a sidenote (hopefully not threadjack, of my own thread!) to thank you for your previous post on this thread (about Sissy's dilating). I found the websites to be very educational about a topic that I have heard very little about. I was amazed to see how many SRS's had taken place in Thailand... but then again, having been there, I know that MTF's are quite visible and supported by the community. So it makes sense.
I went through Dr. Suporn's website and read many of the testimonials... amazing stuff. So thank you for your candid response! /and now back to peeing after masturbation, et. al.
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03-03-2006, 11:19 PM | #22 (permalink) |
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its intresting, but when i was single and masturbated frequently, i got more UTI's back then as opposed to now that i have sex with my bf.
and heres a related question. i don't know if this is common or not, but what about peeing during intercourse?? sometimes i feel the urge to pee during sex with my bf but i hold it back and therefore loose my O (orgasm). and on one occasion during sex i did pee (not much) and it freaked me out. ever since then i pee before and after sex if i have to. but is this what they call the "golden shower"?? is that normal?? and if so why does that happen?? and to be honest, ive been too ashamed to ask my gyn. should i bother asking if theres a problem??
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03-05-2006, 08:19 AM | #23 (permalink) | ||
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However, what you're describing sounds like you may be on the verge of a g-spot orgasm, which produces what feels like an urgent need to urinate. The urge to pee is the release trigger for the orgasm in this case, and it may not actually be an "urge to pee", but the pre-release sensation for the female ejaculation that often accompanies a g-spot orgasm. You may have to just let it go once or twice and see what happens. This might help you understand what I'm talking about. Quote:
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03-05-2006, 09:06 AM | #24 (permalink) |
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intresting.....
no wonder sex with him is amazing. lol....they really are the most intense O's i have ever experienced during my whole sex life.... good to know thanks Gilda!
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04-22-2006, 07:10 PM | #25 (permalink) | |
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I have had so many UTIs that I got to the point where I asked my GYN what I could do about it, and she gave me a prescription for the antibiotic to take whenever I have sex (or even masturbate... the vaginal fluids have bacteria that can also cause a UTI), just in case, and firm orders to pee after. I also get either Azo or Uristat (they work the same, just depends on what's in the store) over the counter, and take that if I feel something coming on. Those help the having to go pee feeling. I also take the Azo/Uristat when I'm going out drinking, because once you break the seal, it's all over... this way, you don't have to go pee until you get home. =) Last edited by CaliLivChick; 04-22-2006 at 07:12 PM.. |
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