Have you tryed initiating by just jumping on top of him and going from there? I hate the formality of deciding to have sex, that totally kills my mood, i like to jump into it, or be jumped into it. Also, some guys just don't initiate, yet like most guys their available for sex any time of the day, you mite just have to bring it out of them?
This reminds me of my situation, which can be summed up by a scene in Curb Your Enthusiasm:
Larry is drifting off when Cheryl asks him, "Why am I the one that always has to initiate sex?" Larry explains that he's always available, and all Cheryl has to do is tap him on the shoulder. Otherwise, he tells her, "I'll just be mauling you all the time" and that would just be annoying...lol
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