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Originally Posted by taboo
i say ask her to go for coffee after work, once, twice, a couple of times, and gage her reactions to you in teh non-office environment, to see if she's interested. If you're both willing (100%), you can mask your relationship, but it does take a hell of a lot of concentration, and you have no room for mistakes. And if it doesn't work out, then you live with the consequences.
I don;t think it should stop you from getting to know her better.
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Ditto. Kick it up a notch -- but just one notch -- and see what's what.
All the warnings about office relationships and "shitting where you eat" are absolutely true. But if it's really important to you, what else ya gonna do? Take a pass and wonder, 20 years down the line, what might have been? Just take it slow and easy; and if it doesn't work out, treat her afterwards with all the respect you gave her before.