i say ask her to go for coffee after work, once, twice, a couple of times, and gage her reactions to you in teh non-office environment, to see if she's interested. If you're both willing (100%), you can mask your relationship, but it does take a hell of a lot of concentration, and you have no room for mistakes. And if it doesn't work out, then you live with the consequences.
I don;t think it should stop you from getting to know her better.
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