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Dragonknight · 02-28-2006, 03:24 AM

The problems I see are these.

1. If things go badly then there's a chance work will become hell and continuing to work there will suck.
2. You get canned for even attempting the relationship.
3. Things go good, and then end and work is now awkward and generally not fun. Very few people can break off a relationship now and days and keep in touch with there ex with no problems.
4. Things go wonderful and you end up married. What are the work policies on married couples working in the same section? As far as I've ever seen it doesn't happen, even if they allow work relationships. This means one of you will have to move should the relationship get that far. Is she worth possibly losing your job just to stay with either way the relationship goes?

My advice is this, ONLY if you’re completely sure she's worth it should you even think about pursuing this any farther. Good luck with it.

02-28-2006, 03:24 AM	#4 (permalink)
Dragonknight Insane Location: Hawaii	The problems I see are these. 1. If things go badly then there's a chance work will become hell and continuing to work there will suck. 2. You get canned for even attempting the relationship. 3. Things go good, and then end and work is now awkward and generally not fun. Very few people can break off a relationship now and days and keep in touch with there ex with no problems. 4. Things go wonderful and you end up married. What are the work policies on married couples working in the same section? As far as I've ever seen it doesn't happen, even if they allow work relationships. This means one of you will have to move should the relationship get that far. Is she worth possibly losing your job just to stay with either way the relationship goes? My advice is this, ONLY if you’re completely sure she's worth it should you even think about pursuing this any farther. Good luck with it. __________________ Freedom is NOT Free.