Gotta agree with Mal - But # 1 - you need to talk to HIM, not snoop around behind his back ... trust is a tricky thing to rebuild. If it has already been damaged by what you feel he has done, then it may already be past the fixing point.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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