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I think the fair thing to do is do what Sage said and just ask. I'd maybe ask it more bluntly, like next time if she asks whos going to be there just say "Why do you want to know?" I try to ask questions that dont lead the person one way or the other. But sometimes being blunt can make the person feel defensive. No matter how you word it, its the only fair thing to do, 1) It lets her explain her side of things 2) you have a right to know why shes so into your friends.
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