Ok. Ergh. I can't stop thinking about this and I just have to get it off my chest. Ok. My GF is a great person, but I'm starting to get suspicious of her. I don't know why. I have no reason not to, but here's the situation.
There is this guy I have class with and he's pretty cool. We'll call him anthony. We eat lunch together with some other class buddies and my GF eats with us. I have noticed a teeny tiny bit of chemistry between the two which bugs the heck out of me. He does photography and has a few pictures posted online and over lunch, she gushed over his pictures and his photo taking abilities. That bothered me a little bit, but I didn't want to bring it up because it might sound like I'm being to possessive.
So there's that. Maybe an hour ago, we were making plans to eat lunch tomorrow. After figuring out the details, the first question she asks is: "is anthony going to be there?" my response: "yeah, he always eats with us". Then she asks: "Is [insert other class friend's name here] going to be there too?" To this I said: "yes." It really bothered me that she asked if anthony was going to be there first. Ergh.!
And that's what set me off big time. I tried not to show any visible reaction to this. I don't think she picked up on anything. I don't know how I should proceed, but tomorrow, we're all eating together. I'm going to keep a close eye on how my GF interacts with Anthony.
What should I do from here? I feel like confronting the issue tomorrow if there are any indications of a crush or anything like that. But if I do, it might come off as accusing and maybe draw us apart. Ergh. Advice? I'm freaking out, and I do want to talk about it with her, but it would really come off as me being insecure and... I need help. This is my first GF. We've been together since the beginning of january 06.
Could this be nothing and me just being paranoid? Is a side-crush a bad thing? Or is it only a bad thing if the BF (me) gets too jealous and crazy...
