balinksi

I have a problem and my girlfriend hates it, to the point were she told me I have to get this under control or she won't have sex with me anymore. Now our sex life is great, we have sex probably 15 times a month and she is a total turn on to me (Big tits, nice tight ass, pretty face, great body and really smart). She does just about anything (no anal) but there is one thing she hates. Cum in her hair. The problem is this, I shoot really far when I cum, like I can pump her in her pussy and then pull out (she is on the pill but she wants me to pull out anyway as a second precaution), I rest my cock on her pussy and then cum, I shoot so hard though that I always get it in her hair and she winds up getting pissed. We have tried several different positions, even me pumping her in her ass while we are both lying on her side. She does not like the feel of condoms plus I have a hard time cumming in them. Any suggestions as to toning down my squirting?