Hi all,
Emdub, evilmatt here. Wow, forgot all about all these responses and I decided to go hunting around for this post. Heh.
Well it's been a couple years since that whole episode, I doubt anyone was curious past a month or two what happened but I might as well give a nice update to the whole thing.
To put it simply, she was cheating on me with my best friend. Yeah, that was fun and most of you were spot on. I was a stupid, lovesick fool hoping and wishing beyond hope that it weren't true but after keylogging my PC for a bit I managed to capture enough conversations between her and my friend to confront her. It was ugly and messy, they broke it off and got back together more times than I care to think about and for a spell I thought I would stay with her, if for no other reason I don't give up on much and a marriage is imporant to me. But no, the cheating whore had to go. It got messier, messier still but it was over about 6 months later, divorce signed, sealed and delivered. And no, I don't talk to that friend either.
And now? Married again, my first child due in June. My wife is a 180 from my first, she's kind and faithful (ZOMG, really?) and the kindest person I know. She's bitchy alongside me, but not at me, and a perfect fit for my personality. I don't have to prove myself to her and she doesn't demand anything but my love and devotion. It's really a wonderful relationship and I would never have appreciated it the way I do had I not gone through the above struggle.
So yeah, just a lil' update. In case anyone was wondering. Thanks to everyone for the advise, it's really true that living my life and being happy the rest of my days is the best revenge and I plan on exacting that revenge for as long as I live.
Take care, y'all.
