|
shani is right in that diffuse boundaries lead up to this...and that you may not have given him a fair chance to back the heck off.
but i'd add that you aren't under obligation to do so. Occasionally, even good and decent people muck things up to the point where it's best to consider the number of people in the world, and compare the time and energy it would take to repair this existing connection to something healthy against the effort to make new connections without this history.
__________________
For God so loved creation, that God sent God's only Son that whosoever believed should not perish, but have everlasting life.
-John 3:16
|